[Rhodes22-list] Oh My God!

elle watermusic38 at yahoo.com
Sun Nov 23 10:42:57 EST 2008


Sorry, Herb. You know not of which you speak. In fact, you acknowledge it at the beginning when you said,"Actually, I think ..."
 
You may analyze,think, suppose and assume, burt unless you spent the years from 1969-2002 in an elementary, junior high and high school classroom, with upwards of 120 vastly differing 'entitled' students of all colors, backgrounds, attitudes, and watched the society change from the kid needing correction (being able to paddle (which was allowed) to the teacher needs correction ("you embarrassed my child when he had no homework....") you really have no dog in this hunt.
 
elle
 
BYW....FYI   I'm at -6 on the "Life Sucks-O-Meter" so be forwarned and forarmed...;^)

We can't change the angle of the wind....but we can adjust our sails.

1992 Rhodes 22 Recyc '06 "WaterMusic" (Lady in Red)

--- On Sat, 11/22/08, Herb Parsons <hparsons at parsonsys.com> wrote:

From: Herb Parsons <hparsons at parsonsys.com>
Subject: Re: [Rhodes22-list] Oh My God!
To: "The Rhodes 22 Email List" <rhodes22-list at rhodes22.org>
Date: Saturday, November 22, 2008, 11:42 PM

Actually, I think it's a combination of multiple issues. Let's face it, 
if the educational lobby concentrated as hard on issues like the one you 
just mentioned as they do on increasing funding, increasing the size of 
their bureaucracy, protecting incompetent "educators", etc., those
laws 
likely would never have been passed.

At the same time, if we as parents, were more involved in the 
educational process of our children, most of us would be surprised at 
exactly what we can do. However, in the relative vaccumn of parental 
involvement, the bureaucracies have thrived like a fungus, and we've 
ended up where we are now.

As Brad alluded to, that's one of the reasons we see people making the 
sacrifices they make to keep their kids in private schools where there 
the bureaucratic mess is mitigated. And I'm not talking about the 
wealthy, who put their kids in private school without thought or effort. 
I'm talking about the working class Joe that makes real sacrifices 
because they've been scared off by the mess that public school has become.


elle wrote:
> Read the papers, Herb.
>
> Educators haven't 'turned over' discipline; it has been ripped
out of their control by laws and regulations and lawsuits.
>
> Don't tax yourself by making this too hard; just concentrate on
looking up the laws regulating the disciplining of special ed students.
>
> You might want to add in the students on probation who are sent back to
school by naive judges.
>
> That's a fun mix to have in the classroom: a kid who knows you
can't do anything to him & a kid who doesn't care what is done to
him.
>
> Oh..add a few who don't speak English.....
>
> Great atmosphere for readin' & writin'.
>
> elle
>
> We can't change the angle of the wind....but we can adjust our sails.
>
> 1992 Rhodes 22   Recyc '06  "WaterMusic"   (Lady in Red)
>
>
> --- On Sat, 11/22/08, Herb Parsons <hparsons at parsonsys.com> wrote:
>
>   
>> From: Herb Parsons <hparsons at parsonsys.com>
>> Subject: Re: [Rhodes22-list] Oh My God!
>> To: "The Rhodes 22 Email List"
<rhodes22-list at rhodes22.org>
>> Date: Saturday, November 22, 2008, 9:42 PM
>> Isn't it amazing how much educators have turned over
>> discipline to 
>> "professionals" so they can "concentrate on
>> educating"; yet the overall 
>> education level is declining?
>>
>> Brad Haslett wrote:
>>     
>>> Herb,
>>>
>>> It all reminds me of an incident that happened about
>>>       
>> two weeks ago
>>     
>>> (and a similar incident 2 decades ago when my older
>>>       
>> boys were
>>     
>>> youngsters).  One of Fan's friends, a Filipino
>>>       
>> lady who husband was
>>     
>>> making rounds as Doc on a Saturday morning, made the
>>>       
>> mistake of
>>     
>>> leaving her five year-old with me for the morning so
>>>       
>> they could go
>>     
>>> shopping.  I couldn't wait for their car to hit
>>>       
>> the end of the
>>     
>>> driveway.  When they returned, Momma Filipino asked me
>>>       
>> how "little
>>     
>>> shithead" and I got along.  "Oh, just fine,
>>>       
>> he's a sweet kid".  I'm
>>     
>>> assuming he was still too scared to tell mom how I
>>>       
>> picked him up by
>>     
>>> his britches (therefore scrunching what little nuts he
>>>       
>> had) to have a
>>     
>>> 'mano-a-mano' talk at eye level.  These
>>>       
>> gutless wonders who call cops
>>     
>>> for silly shit they should handle real time not only
>>>       
>> amaze me, but
>>     
>>> piss me off.
>>>
>>> And you wonder why people work two jobs to send their
>>>       
>> kids to a
>>     
>>> private school where they can be kicked out in a
>>>       
>> heartbeat?
>>     
>>> Brad
>>>
>>> On Sat, Nov 22, 2008 at 5:55 PM, Herb Parsons
>>>       
>> <hparsons at parsonsys.com> wrote:
>>     
>>>   
>>>       
>>>> I read that one too, and was all prepared to be
>>>>         
>> outraged as well;
>>     
>>>> however, I think this is a case of creating
>>>>         
>> "attention grabbing
>>     
>>>> headlines". I suspect that the kid turning
>>>>         
>> off the computers of those
>>     
>>>> around him during the computer class was the real
>>>>         
>> disruption that got
>>     
>>>> him in trouble. If you isolate the two, it makes
>>>>         
>> it pretty apparent.
>>     
>>>> If he was ONLY turning off computers during
>>>>         
>> computer class, would he
>>     
>>>> have been disciplined - most likely
>>>> If he was ONLY "passing wind" during
>>>>         
>> class, would have been disciplined
>>     
>>>> - probably not
>>>>
>>>> If the last one was the case though, THEN it would
>>>>         
>> have made for a
>>     
>>>> really interesting story. Right up there with the
>>>>         
>> ones about 5 year olds
>>     
>>>> being disciplined for "sexual
>>>>         
>> harrassment" for kissing girls.
>>     
>>>> Now THAT was an art form when I was a kid :)
>>>>
>>>> Brad Haslett wrote:
>>>>     
>>>>         
>>>>> Good thing they finally busted this kid. 
>>>>>           
>> Imagine, if you let this
>>     
>>>>> kind of thing go on he'd eventually end of
>>>>>           
>> Governor of some state
>>     
>>>>> ignoring the slaughter of Thanksgiving
>>>>>           
>> turkeys. In my family, "passing
>>     
>>>>> gas" was considered an art form and
>>>>>           
>> I've always been a competitive
>>     
>>>>> person.  Thank goodness my school teachers had
>>>>>           
>> a sense of humor - at
>>     
>>>>> least I'd like to think they did.
>>>>>
>>>>> Brad
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>           
>> http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/years/2008/1121083gas1.html
>>     
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