[Rhodes22-list] Who Made You the Jello Sheriff?

Bill Effros bill at effros.com
Wed Dec 31 13:28:18 EST 2008


Michael,

It is clear from your nasty tone just how pissed off you are.

Bill Effros



michael meltzer wrote:
> Bill, please do not under underestimate, the leveled of how pissed off I am
> here, frankly I truly debating just taking rhodes22.org down............ I
> an truly disturbed by the nasty tone.... you will need a new domain name and
> the servives to bring is back up in your image(unless you out source it),
> maybe john will work with you but he needs to speak for him self.
>
> -mjm
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: rhodes22-list-bounces at rhodes22.org
> [mailto:rhodes22-list-bounces at rhodes22.org] On Behalf Of Bill Effros
> Sent: Wednesday, December 31, 2008 11:32 AM
> To: The Rhodes 22 Email List
> Subject: Re: [Rhodes22-list] Who Made You the Jello Sheriff?
>
> Jb,
>
> Michael built and maintained Stan's website.  In return, Stan would tow 
> Michael's boat to Edenton every winter, upgrade it, install "test" 
> equipment, bottom paint it, and get it back to Michael in time for an 
> early launch.
>
> At some point, Michael suggested the formation of an email group so that 
> people could ask each other all the questions that Stan couldn't 
> possibly respond to...even if he owned a computer, and knew how to use it.
>
> Michael put links on Stan's website so both existing owners and newbies 
> could find "da list".  (Remember, Google is only 10 years old -- it was 
> difficult for anyone other than a computer geek to find anything on the 
> Internet, and email lists were not indexed.)  Almost everyone who got on 
> "da list" at that time was sent here by Stan, both from his website and 
> from in-person recommendations both before and after boat purchases.
>
> I know I got here because Stan suggested I could learn a lot from people 
> on the list.  I know many others who got here the same way.
>
> Michael is one of the smartest people on the planet.  In the early days, 
> he would answer 9 out of 10 questions asked.  He talked to Stan 
> regularly, and when he didn't know the answer, and felt it was a good 
> question, he would call Stan after hours and come up with the technical 
> information the rest of us sought.
>
> We hopped onto the Sailnet list server at some point.  They wanted to be 
> a web portal for sailers.  They offered free list-hosting.  As they grew 
> they encountered growing pains.  They switched software, and lost 
> everyone on the list in the process.  Those of us who cared, contacted 
> everyone else back-channel and told them what had happened and what they 
> had to do to get back on the list.  I believe we had 34 members at that 
> point. 
>
> Then Sailnet started selling things, and made a rule that no one else 
> could sell anything on any list they hosted.  Then they started 
> monitoring lists to enforce the rule, and bouncing out people who 
> violated their rule.
>
> We started looking for another way to run our list, and Michael came up 
> with the Mailman Program which he hosted and maintained as administrator.
>
> At some point Stan learned to use a computer, and started providing 
> information directly to the list. What a treat!  When somebody got 
> something wrong, or had a better way to solve a problem, the guy who 
> built the boat would actually discuss the issue on an open forum!
>
> Michael was plugged into the blogging community before anyone used the 
> word "blog".  He would get jokes, and "insider info" and post it to the 
> list long before any other sailor had access to what he posted.  Some 
> complained that it was "off-topic" but Stan always said he loved it, and 
> didn't give a damn if anyone didn't think it was funny, or disagreed 
> with anyone else's political views.  And, he said, living in Edenton, he 
> wasn't locally exposed to a lot of cultural stuff he took for granted 
> living near NYC.
>
> "Bring it on" said Stan, "and don't worry about killing a boat 
> sale--this is much more fun--be yourself--respect each other--Michael 
> taught me how to use the delete key."
>
> Food fights would erupt from time to time over the exact same issues.  
> Politics and Religion were both banned at some point, so people started 
> inserting their political views in the form of often vicious jokes.  The 
> only way anyone could object to the joke was to explain it in political 
> terms. The prohibition against Politics was dropped with the mandate 
> that all political discussion had to be preceded on the subject line by 
> the word Politics:
>
> How to use filters to toss all email labeled "Politics:" into anyone's 
> junk folder was repeatedly explained so that anyone not wishing to see 
> this stuff would never even know others on the list were actively 
> discussing these topics.
>
> Later, a rule was instituted mandating that Jokes: also appears on the 
> subject line when the content is jokes.
>
> ...
>
> At some point the list turned on Stan.  It wasn't anyone's fault, it was 
> just the normal evolution of the Internet.
>
> Some of the people who had been with the list for a long time opted to 
> purchase other boats. They started singing the praises of their boats, 
> on Stan's list, and urging others to trade in Stan's boat for one 
> bigger, or better, or more ostentatious.
>
> Then people who would never have been able to find each other started 
> selling boats directly to each other, and cutting Stan out of the middle 
> -- "Stan offered me $10,000 for this boat, so you know he's going to 
> sell it for $20,000 -- I'll sell it to anyone on the list for $15,000."
>
> Then people started offering to fabricate parts for Stan's boat--"Send 
> me the specifications on that trailer, and I'll make one for you for 1/2 
> what Stan would charge." 
>
> Over time they hijacked Stan's list.  Stan objected several times, and 
> many people on the list went out of their way to only buy through Stan.  
> But, in the end, Stan stopped participating on a regular basis, and took 
> the list off his web site.
>
> But, it's still Stan's list, and Stan is still the common link for most 
> of us.  He can't use it as a sales tool anymore, but he still can have 
> fun with old friends...just as it says in the charter.
>
> I have posted the charter below so all can see what they signed up for, 
> if they never took the time to read it previously.
>
> In prior years, Michael would post the Charter at this point--he wrote 
> it, but he seems disinclined to do so, so here it is:
>
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>  
> Bill Effros
>
> Jb wrote:
>   
>> why do keep saying this is Stans list?
>> Jb
>> ----- Original Message ----- 
>> From: "Bill Effros" <bill at effros.com>
>> To: "The Rhodes 22 Email List" <rhodes22-list at rhodes22.org>
>> Sent: Tuesday, December 30, 2008 8:53 PM
>> Subject: [Rhodes22-list] Who Made You the Jello Sheriff?
>>
>>
>>   
>>     
>>> Michael,
>>>
>>> Who made you the Jello Sheriff?
>>>
>>> This is Stan's list, not yours, and he just told us he doesn't believe a
>>> Jello Sheriff is required.
>>>
>>> Shall I tell you who I think is being a PITA?
>>>
>>> Do you think it will improve the list if everyone conforms to your views
>>> of who is using "mean sprite"?  Only people who submit jokes you find
>>> funny can remain on the list?  If you don't laugh--they're out!
>>>
>>> Whatever happened to that rule about throwing people off the list if
>>> they don't own a Rhodes-22?
>>>
>>> How about syntax rules, and spelling rules?  That should be fun.
>>>
>>> Better drop the rule about people on ego trips.
>>>
>>> Of course, this charter change must be submitted to the entire list as
>>> per our charter.  Does Rummy still get a vote?  How about Ben?  How
>>> about people under your review?
>>>
>>> LOL,
>>>
>>> Your dear friend,
>>>
>>> Bill Effros
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> michael meltzer wrote:
>>>     
>>>       
>>>> He is the working idea.
>>>>
>>>> 1)      Is the problem is not so much the off subject post, as long as 
>>>> the
>>>> are entertaining there is no real issue, funny, informative, nice..
>>>>
>>>> 2)      The problem is the people using "mean sprite" , pounding on 
>>>> people,
>>>> people on ego trips that they must change the world by changing the view
>>>>         
>
>   
>>>> of
>>>> the members, being a PITA
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> To that end.
>>>>
>>>> 1)      in the short: people using "mean sprite" , pounding on people,
>>>> people on ego trips that they must change the world by changing the view
>>>>         
>
>   
>>>> of
>>>> the members. Can and will be suspended buy me and john at our whim,
>>>>         
> using
>   
>>>> current tools. Willing to listen to some group feedback but really  the
>>>> right to suspend and remove PITA's
>>>>
>>>> 2)      in the long term both me and john no not have the time for this.
>>>> Thinking along the lines of a "trusted" group of people can numerated a
>>>> poster for suspend/remove/band that a larger group of list members can 
>>>> vote
>>>> on(the jury, maybe post #/length of time on the list weighted). Web
>>>>         
> based
>   
>>>> system. Me and john then become the "apples board. The real question in 
>>>> most
>>>> cases would be are you a PITA and worth it
>>>>
>>>> 3)      there is a question about a wiki(ben), we tried it once but
>>>>         
> let's
>   
>>>> try again, it could have broad applies
>>>>
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